{"id":253,"date":"2011-06-29T14:46:00","date_gmt":"2011-06-29T14:46:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.danijelgajan.com\/?p=253"},"modified":"2024-09-23T14:48:26","modified_gmt":"2024-09-23T14:48:26","slug":"letting-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.danijelgajan.com\/sr\/misc\/letting-go\/","title":{"rendered":"Letting go"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After practising Aikido for three and a half years, I quit in March due to other obligations. This was one of the most challenging choices I\u2019ve had to make in my entire life. As I walked to the dojo to tell my sensei about my decision, my eyes were filled with tears, and I felt devastated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aikido has brought so much into my life. Apart from the benefits of physical exercise, Aikido has boosted my confidence and taught me valuable lessons about handling life situations. 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